Dating my ex wife
Stepmoms can save themselves a lot of stress and angst by understanding a few basic truths and some sound coping strategies. In mom’s mind, she didn’t sign up to co-parent with you, and she and her ex were doing just fine before you came along.If you stop expecting a “thank you” that might never come, you’ll stop being disappointed.And while you’re at it, please stop trying to be overly nice to her while she continues to show you she has no interest in forging a relationship with you. Her acceptance or lack of has nothing to do with your value as a person or a stepmom.There are probably a million emotions she hasn’t processed or isn’t of working through and she just might not be able to accept you. Let go of trying to please her and focus on what really matters— you, your marriage and your family.
Who you should be receiving appreciation from is your It’s so easy to judge another’s parenting. She doesn’t see life through the same filter as you.
You may not always be lucky enough to get it back, but if you can, then it’s worth giving it another shot.
By dating an ex again and falling back in love, you can learn from your past errors and make sure the same mistakes never happen again.
Will her choices assure your stepchild a life of crime?
If so, then your husband needs to kick it into high gear, but if not, try to let go of your judgments.